My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and he cheated on me last year and i found out this year. we both have been thur some changes this year, and he has been loyal and i know he has cause he has been by my side 24/7 but since he has cheated on me i feel like i have been cheated when it comes to our sex life now that he has a hernia. we have had sex maybe 6 time in a year is it wrong that I’m being selfish and feeling neglected and wanted more from him. I love him but feel so lonely